• The Journey of Vulnerability: Embracing Connection

    I believe that people come into our lives for a reason, a season or a lifetime. That there is an expiration date to all relationships. The end comes for us all, either through death or break up (term used loosely). So when someone exits stage left I bid them a sorrowful farewell, but do not

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  • The Fine Art of Being Selfish

    I’m creeping up to that age where apathy for the needs of others is becoming a warm, fuzzy blanket. For the vast majority of my life being selfish was seen as a negative trait. That it was my duty as the eldest daughter, a mother, a wife to prioritize the demands of family over the

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  • The Power of Self-Worth in Dating Decisions

    “Why would I pay for something I get to see for free?” In another life that would have been a blow to a fragile ego. These days? Not so much. My ego is in a reinforced steel vault that would require something pretty significant to dent it. I’m not even certain anything could get through

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  • From Headaches to Laughter: Outdoor Comedy Festival Insights

    A tidbit of information not many know about me is, I am a sucker for stand up comedy. I watch it all the time and it’s the #1 recommendations on my Netflix account. Even as I write this I’m watching Brad William’s “Starfish” on YouTube. I’ve been to a few comedy shows and even took

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  • Facing FOMO: Missing My Vegas Experience

    Last year a friend sent me a link to a Facebook group, with a two word message, “wanna go?” I was in NOLA at the time with my daughter, and had just gotten back from Mexico the month before, so to say I was hesitant is a bit of an understatement. I told her I

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  • Balancing Life: Juggling Work, Family, and Creativity

    I have more drafts than posts for this blog. I start writing and then abandon ship when I hear an invisible bell go off signalling time’s up. I don’t know why, but I’ve caught myself in this whirlpool of ideas, but an inability to anchor myself to finish any of them. This might even be

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  • Embracing Death: A Life of Stories and Adventures

    We used to be told all of humanity had two things in common: Death and Taxes; but as many government mandates and loopholes show, death is the only commonality amongst the classes these days. There’s no avoiding it. We can rail against the dying light, make Death drag us kicking and screaming into the void,

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  • Life Lessons from George of the Jungle

    One of my favourite songs is “Dela”, by South African band, Savuka. They released it in 1989, when I was 8. Every time it plays, which is often for me, it weaves a spell. Soaking into my skin, taking over my grey matter, pulling invisible marionette strings and I dance like a happy demon has

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  • The Addams Family Life

    When I was a kid I loved watching The Addams Family on TV even though it debuted two decades before I was born. I loved watching them, even in black and white and interrupted with commercials (remember those?). When the movie came out in 1991 I fell in love with the kooky family and their

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  • Once Upon a Time…

    Once Upon a Time…

    When lies become truth, how do you tell the memories from the wannabes?

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